Memory: Blind!Jaina, pacifist!Jacen and the Vong invasion of Duro.
Received: Day 219, night
Form: Memories come in the form of fiery butterflies in small glass boxes. Open the box and you'll receive the memory; the butterfly will fly out and disappear.
Summary: The Yuuzhan Vong take the polluted planet Duro, which New Republic war relief efforts had been routing refugees to. The Solo-Skywalker family does what it can to save who they can, but even Jedi can only do so much; in this we see that a series named "Star Wars" remains about war even when your main characters aren't combat-capable and/or willing.

( Poor mom. She's got a half-blind, stubborn daughter who can't fight anymore and a son who's afraid to be a Jedi. Good thing Anakin came along. )